Is this The Age of Antisocial Customers? - Learn why minimising customer effort leads to maximised loyalty
I vividly remember the first time I realised friendly service might not mean good service. A year ago, I went out to get lunch with a coworker at our usual place: a small cafe run by a lovely Turkish family. On this particular day, the owner was there and we cheerfully made small talk. He was incredibly nice, even going so far as to personally bring the order to our table - what we might call ‘going the extra mile.’ While afterwards my summary of the interaction was very positive, my coworker’s impression centered more around the words ‘awkward’ and ‘uncomfortable,’ decidedly followed by a stern “I am never going there again!”
This wish that Londoners share of being left alone is so common that there is an actual academic term for it – civil inattention, coined by Erving Goffman. So in a society where people go to such great lengths to avoid unnecessary social interactions that it needs to be studied, the question is bound to arise in marketer’s minds: Why do brands still think that building a personal relationship with their customers is key? Recent research reveals that there is no need to waste millions on such strategies, as there might be an alternative way of driving customer loyalty (and subsequently retention) that is both cheaper and easier.